The first step to creating a change is to be grateful for the good things you have. Fighting will only make matters worse. For sure this is the hardest step, the letting go. For it potentially make us feel helpless. The thing is we are letting go into what ever our idea of the divine energy is.

So here's the first key to unlock the doors that you are seeking: "I accept myself as I am and am at peace with the world as it is"

The mind is so powerful it is able to transform things in an instant. So, begin to put your mind to work rather than let it jump around like a drunk monkey which has been stung by a scorpion! Grab hold of your own reigns and steer this in the direction you crave.

Practice self love through self acceptance and devote yourself to making others happy. In love of self we are honoring the god within.